I have a question for girls?

Would you rather...



Have children and live a stereotypical family life. Go to church (if you're religious), visit the family every christmas, punish the children when they're bad, be a housewife, cook (nice food), clean, and all the things a housewife does while your husband works a high paying career. You're busy and there's enough money, but not lots of money.



Or



Live a more free life and not be bound by obligations. Not be tied down to anything. No marriage or kids. Live in a modern house with solar panels, a balcony, nice view, modern kitchen, you know... Travel the world visiting all continents, from antartica to africa, from asia to canada. More going out, more fun, a longer life (because no stress, healthy eating, enough sleep, enough time to exercise and play sports.. Things that would be hard to do have if you had children. Not saying you can't have that, but having children usually is stressful, time consuming, sleep depriving. Pregnancy itself is painful, fattening, and can be life threatening. If it doesn't kill you, I think it probably took some years off your life.... Partying, seeing friends, nice car, and a lot of money. Your boyfriend has a high paying career, and you work part time simply because it gives you a little extra income to buy a tastier turkey or nicer wine... Or whatever. Your job is stress free... Like a dance teacher or something. Not mcdonalds or something like that.I have a question for girls?
the second one sounds nice...but empty...you need kids to fill your life, the second one maybe do that for the first year then settle down bring kids and make a family, when your old you wont be able to do all that, you want to settle down and have stories to tell....your grandchildren trust me just seeing your kid graduate is worth the second one and more...money comes and goes but with a job everything is good...I say wait a year doing the second and trust me you'll have a thirst for the first...a life is empty if you dont have a family...so I say the first one.I have a question for girls?
its hard to choose, i need kind like middle option, but if chose from what's given i would pick the bottom one! because i love traveling and would love to live in like the city in an apartment and have a really fun job and boyfriend!I have a question for girls?
Option 2 but with adoption!I have a question for girls?
Terrible ultimatum. Your options are not that great. I don't want to be bound my the mundane aspects of life, but I don't mind relationships.