HELP MY COUSIN IS RUINING HIS LIFE!!!!!!!!?

When he was little his mom held him back because she didnt want him going to school with a broken arm. So now he is 18 and in the 10th grade. He repeated twice he is really pose to have graduated last year. They say he never does his work and he smokes weed and sells drugs. He has been doing that since he was like 15 or 16. He use to be the funnest guy to be around but now he has changed. HE still is the fun guy but thats only if he is at our house. I still love him but I hate what he has become. His parents dont really care. MY other cousin Dee who use to be in the same grade with him passed and now is in the 12th grade this year. Now Dee little sister is in the same grade and DJ(The drug dealer) I don't know if he still sells drugs though. Well he also doesn't like to bath and get hair cuts. I really hope he doesn't drop out because he will really regret it. He will not listen ot me if I tell him to get his work done. I am not catching up to him I am going to HS now. So what can I do to help him.



Also one of his sisters is lazy she sleeps all day and doesnt do anything. She is like 20 now still at home. I love her so much though. And his other sister is 19 and only went to college so my grandpa would give her money but she quick. Now she works at McDonald's no real career.HELP MY COUSIN IS RUINING HIS LIFE!!!!!!!!?
He has to help himself. As long as the parents allow it, why should he care?HELP MY COUSIN IS RUINING HIS LIFE!!!!!!!!?
You can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped. Sounds like his whole family does just enough to get by.



Talk to him, tell him you would be really upset if he didn't pass this grade and tell him he needs to finish high school. Tell him that high school is only a short part of your life and that he needs to work hard and graduate.



Talk to his parents - your Aunt and Uncle and tell them that your really worried about him.